Date Intentionally

Your comprehensive dating journal. Date with purpose, clarity and insight. Uncover your dating patterns, ask better questions, and discover true compatibility more quickly.

Track Your Connections Record Your Dates Reflect on your Journey

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Why BetterDating?

Track Your Connections

Keep all your dating connections organized in one place. Remember important details, track compatibility, and build a complete picture of each person you meet.

Document Your Dates

Record what happened on each date, how you felt, and what you learned. Build a rich history that helps you see what works and what doesn't.

Reflect on Patterns

Review your dating history to discover your real patterns. See what traits, values, and behaviors consistently lead to your best connections.

Date with Purpose

Move beyond swiping and guessing. Use your insights to ask better questions, spot green & red flags earlier, and focus on connections with real potential.

AI Enabled

Use AI to help surface insights, propose conversation topics, plan dates, and more.

Calendar Sync

Plan your dates in BetterDating and watch them seamlessly sync to your calendar app.

Self-Assessment

Complete a self-assessment that asks the hard questions about what it is you really value and are looking for in a partner.

Getting started with BetterDating

1. Create an Account

Sign up to start your intentional dating journey.

2. Add Your Connections

Create profiles for the people you're dating. Track their interests, where you met, and other important details.

3. Complete Your Self-Assessment

Answer questions about your values, interests, and what you're looking for in a partner to enable statistical compatibility analysis as well as better understand yourself.

4. Plan Your Dates & Set Up Calendar Sync

Plan dates with your connections and sync them to your personal calendar.

5. Write Reflections

Journal about how your dates went, and track your thoughts and feelings over time.

6. Get AI-Powered Insights

Add your OpenAI API key to unlock statistical compatibility analysis, venue suggestions, personalized chat topics, and generate key compatibility questions.

7. Discover Patterns

Review statistics, compatibility patterns, and preference analysis to understand what you're really looking for and make better dating decisions. Every connection and every date teaches us more about ourselves.

Pricing

BetterDating is currently completely free while we're in beta. Sign up now and start your intentional dating journey at no cost.

At some point in the future, BetterDating will transition to a low-priced monthly subscription to support ongoing maintenance & development.